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The Process of Relationship: Single or DINK -2
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- Marriage is a new beginning, not a goal in life. After marriage, the important question will be how well two people who have lived different lives can adjust to each other.
- Like Son Ye-jin's monologue in the last scene of the drama "Love Story," relationships are a continuous process of pain and happiness, fighting and hating, boredom and pity. The time you accumulate through this process will eventually become precious memories.
- Marriage is a new beginning in life, but the process is not easy. Remember that living together as two people who have lived different lives requires constant effort and understanding.
Continuing from the previous episode...
"What would you do if Blackpink's Jennie asked you to start dating today with the promise of marriage in two years? I'm a non-maritalist, so I can't even start. I'm sorry. Would you answer like this? What if actor Park Seo-joon came up to you and said he wanted to have a daughter who looked like you and asked you to start dating with the promise of marriage? I'm a DINK, so I can't date. Can you answer like this?"
They all just laughed for a while, half joking and half serious.
I think worries about whether to get married or have children arise when you are faced with someone you love and adore. It is then, within the process of that relationship, that these relative and situational questions arise. Of course, this way of thinking may not be the right answer for everyone. However, their speechless reactions made me think that my view of marriage as a process of relationship was not entirely wrong. Marriage can be a new beginning, but it cannot be a goal. Rather, the more realistic concern is how and to what extent will I, someone who has lived in a different world, be able to adjust to and live with this other person.
Although it's an old drama, in the final scene of 'Love in the City', Son Ye-jin, after experiencing the pain of a miscarriage and separation, looks at her husband playing with their newly born child after they reunite, and says the following monologue. (Of course, I have not experienced marriage, so I cannot say anything more. However, I believe I can sufficiently express the difficulty and expectations of maintaining a relationship's unknown state, even though time and moments may well remain.)
"Time filled with pain has passed, and time filled with rare happiness has also passed, and we have come this far. We sometimes fight, sometimes feel intense hatred, sometimes get bored, and often feel sorry for each other. As time goes by and we look back, I will shamelessly say that I was happy, drowsy with sleepiness. But since this is not the end of my time, I cannot call our current state a happy ending."
