There is no limit to bad things.

There is a saying that there is a limit to being handsome and beautiful, but there is no limit to being ugly.

If you think about it carefully, it's not just about appearance, but also about personality and other aspects. It seems like there's no limit to bad things.

Have you ever hardly heard the phrase, "How can someone be so good!" in your life?

I wasn't the only one who was baffled by the man who disappeared without a trace.

It was a sensitive issue even for the managers who were strictly managed by the system.

If you want to use a marriage information company service, there is something you should keep in mind.

You will be penalized if you don't show the minimum courtesy.

Not long after that weekend.

I headed to Gwanghwamun, Seoul to meet someone the matching team leader strongly recommended.

My friend also encouraged me to go on a good date, saying that my bad mood would go away and the weather was nice.

The meeting time was 3 pm.

I arrived about 15 minutes early and took a seat at the cafe.

I also wore a pretty dress and shoes, and even put some effort into my hair styling for the blind date.

Interestingly, there were many couples similar to us at the table next to us.

You can tell just by looking at their sitting posture. Ah, they met for the first time today. Spring is really here.

But this man is late without any notice. I should have known there was something wrong right then!

He appeared in a hoodie and sweatpants, tall and good looking, but he was late for the appointment and hurriedly sat down across from me.

At that moment, I felt like a fool for spending the whole morning getting ready.

He gulped down his coffee and started a relentless pressure interview.

"When did you join here?"

"Have you met many people?"

"Did you join yourself? Or did your parents sign you up?"

He asked only the questions that the manager had told us not to ask when we met.

I thought he was rude, but I answered him sincerely, trying not to show my annoyance.

"I have to go get ready to have dinner with my younger sister. I'll get going now."

I got up from my seat awkwardly because of his words.

"I have a car, so I need to go that way... I'll go now..."

He disappeared like the wind without even a proper goodbye.

We had only been together for 50 minutes.

Honestly, I didn't like the age difference or anything, but the manager recommended him, so I thought, 'Okay, let's meet him once.' But,

Isn't this too much? Did I curl my hair all morning just to be treated like this?

"Ha... We met and broke up."

"You already broke up?!!"

"He said he has to have dinner with his younger sister every weekend. He said he has to get ready for that."

"Ugh, I felt he was not a good person right away."

"Wow... I think I need a drink."

"Come to my house first. My husband will take you home, so he said you can come and have a drink together."

I tried to calm down my feelings for a long time in the middle of Gwanghwamun, but I just couldn't.

I rushed to Suwon by bus to get comfort from my friend who I only met once every quarter.

"Why am I so bad at meeting people?" 😭

The next morning, the team leaders were on high alert because of my formal complaint.

Both the counseling team leader and the matching team leader were shocked by my complaints about the worst experience ever.

They desperately tried to comfort me and apologized on his behalf.

"Forget about the past. It's good that you didn't end up with someone like that. I gave that man's manager a piece of my mind."

"Don't let your self-esteem drop. It's the men who are weird."

After that, the matching team leader was more careful in choosing who to introduce me to.

When I was getting over the shock, he recommended someone who seemed really nice this time, so I made an appointment without much hesitation.

The man, who was short and overweight, was a new character I had never seen before.

"I think my weakness is my physique, but if it's covered up by other things, then date me.

If not, I think it's inevitable."

He was the type to make up for his physical shortcomings with his personality.

He was very confident and showed basic manners, so

I understood why his feedback was positive.

He kept talking about his past love life without a break, so I was like, 'What's going on?' But, he opened up everything from the beginning and

I got the feeling like, "If you still like me after this, then let's date."

He said that if I wasn't completely turned off, I should meet him three times, and

He was very proactive, so it took less than two weeks to have those three meetings.

He was a new type of person I had never met before, so everything was just new and exciting.

The man knew a lot, had many interests, and talked a lot.

30% about his life story, 60% about how our relationship would progress, and

10% about what he thought about marriage. It was clear that we were heading in a positive direction.

"This is the first time I've seen someone talk about their own strengths so freely."

"I guess he has high self-esteem. Maybe he's trying to really appeal to you."

My friend found it interesting because he was a new character.

"If we're dating, I'll drive you around, but I won't accept money or material things. For example, a kiss on the cheek?"

He wasn't necessarily lacking in seriousness, but his conversation was very honest and frank.

First, he would blurt out something and then look at me slightly, so I thought he didn't have bad intentions, but

I got the feeling he was riding the line between being comfortable and being a bit too forward.

You'll know if he only talks about himself or if he listens to others when you meet him.

He was extremely proactive, and in the end, I agreed that we could try dating because he seemed okay.

And it was our second date, wasn't it?

After work, we went to a famous cafe, took pictures, ate, drank coffee, and talked when

We naturally moved on to the topic of children when we saw kids playing noisily.

"I'm going to have a lot of kids."

"How many kids do you want to have?"

"Unlimited. I'm going to have as many as possible."

"Isn't it a bit difficult to have more than two kids these days?"

"I will never compromise on this."

"I think you should discuss that with your spouse."

"I'm confident that I can take care of them all. I won't make my wife do all the parenting."

"That's not what I mean. It might be hard to have many kids given the circumstances."

"Are you talking about money?"

"Putting that aside, I'm in my late 30s, and I'm physically old, so I might not be able to handle it."

"Ah, that could be true. I admit it! Okay.

But I'll never use birth control, and I'll have as many as possible."

"Women are the ones who give birth."

I felt like I couldn't control my facial expressions during the conversation.

It wasn't just a feeling, a patriarchal smell suddenly came to mind.

He seemed to sense my changing emotions and his expression hardened.

"Well... I think we should decide together.

But if you keep saying things like, 'I will never compromise,' will we be able to have a conversation?"

"I'm not saying we won't discuss it, but if you keep nagging like that, there's nothing I can do."

For a moment, I couldn't believe my ears.

Wow, how long has it been since I heard the phrase "nagging"?

And that too, at the very beginning of a relationship when we're just getting to know each other!

Ah, if I don't stop him now, I might end up hitting him?

I'm not a good person who doesn't know how to swear.

It's just that I don't like seeing people swear, and I'm trying to be a good person.

This ominous feeling that brushed against my neck lit up a red light and warned me.

If we keep seeing each other, it will end in one of two ways. We'll fight like crazy and break up, or I'll get so frustrated that I'll develop a peptic ulcer.

I told the counseling team leader about my worries.

The team leader listened seriously to my story and advised me to end things quickly if I saw any sign of his patriarchal tendencies.

After a few days of deliberation, I called him, told him about my feelings and worries, and

I said I thought we weren't compatible, so we should end things.

He seemed to have expected it, and he calmly listened for a while, but then he

"To be honest, I broke up with two other girls who liked me and went all in on you. It's a bit inconvenient for you to stab me in the back like this."

"Do you think you can find someone better than me? You'll never find someone like me. You'll definitely regret this."

He continued to spit out confident insults. He really had amazing self-esteem.

"I left when I knew I wouldn't regret it, and I've never regretted it. I won't in the future either.

I'm grateful, and I hope you find someone good.